Why giving a compliment is a dying art

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Last Updated: 12:01am BST 18/05/2007

Men have become too concerned about political correctness to give a compliment to the opposite sex, according to a survey.

Their concerns are backed by 65 per cent of women who suspect there is nothing innocent behind a flattering remark from a work colleague or new acquaintance.

While 89 per cent of women loved to receive a compliment, 67 per cent felt uncomfortable if it came from anybody other than their partner.

advertisementSadly, 12 per cent said no one had paid them a compliment in the past three months, the poll for Loire Valley White Wines found.

Christine Webber, a relationship expert, said: "While it may seem somewhat frivolous, a compliment is in fact a vital ingredient for well-being.

"The trick though is to be able to pay someone a compliment and make them feel good about themselves, rather than coming over as smarmy or, worse, a bit lecherous."



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